✨Actual Things Doctors Have Said To Me✨ Reports have shown that nearly half of Trans people have been mistreated by medical providers. Unfortunately, my experiences aren't unique... and this video only skims the surface. I am grateful to have found a doctor who is Trans. Since l've been in their care, my experience has been incredibly positive. We deserve to feel safe in these spaces.💕 #trans
✨Actual Things People Say To Me✨ No one is forcing anyone to say or do anything. We are just letting you know how to respect and protect us. If your ideas of the world override your empathy…then go ahead! Misgender me! And I will be gone quicker than you can you can say “shellfish.”🤷🏻♀️💕
fooled ya there😂 The live event is March 29th-31st. go RSVP on their TikTok page @mercurystardust and @alluringskull by clicking the live event banner and join us in helping raising money for trans people, by trans people!!!💕
✨A Conversation with J.K. Rowling✨ feat. actual things she’s said about Trans people. We need folks to combat this kind of hateful rhetoric. To learn more about how you can show up for the Trans community, head to the link in my bio.💕
a year ago today, I had a surgery that truly changed my life. my hairline dysphoria became so dibilitating that I couldn’t even look at myself in the mirror. this surgery was incredibly challenging for a lot of reasons…but looking back on where I was a year ago from where I am now, I am so proud of my commttment to loving myself through bold action. we all deserve to take whatever steps we need to find comfort.💕
✨Confessions of a Trans Bride: Our Love Story✨ It is so beautiful to look back on all of this and see how inevitable our love was. Literally everything…good and bad…brought us closer to each other. That’s why a promise of ~forever~ feels easy to make…because our love is TRUE.💕 Feel free to ask any questions in the comments. :)
My phone sent me a memory of this photo titled “You 7 Years Ago”… (honestly transphobic lol) but it really sent me back. I remember how I used to feel so small. I used to be debilitatingly worried about how I was being perceived, so I played the part that was given to me. I played it so well. I even convinced myself that I was happy...but my measure of happiness was entirely contingent on the validation of those around me. Like a chameleon, I disappeared into my surroundings… The person you see today is someone who truly knows who they are. I’m no longer trapped in an image of “should be.” I’m no longer attached to this story that I am someone who struggles…someone who is undervalued…and unseen… I am someone who knows that they deserve to feel good. I deserve to be seen. I am settled in the knowledge that I am constantly arriving…in each moment…to a place where my truth can be better seen, heard, and loved. This “glow up” is not about gaining superficial beauty. It’s about celebrating the fact that I found my inner ✨glow✨… I wish that for everyone on this planet.💕 #trans