Dr. Sarah Hensley

First, seggs is a code word you can hopefully figure out because I’m not about to get kicked off. Secondly, there ARE other reasons like feeling like their husband doesn’t help them with the workload, or affairs, etc. BUT this is THE biggest reason by far. Calm down and breathe, I know it may be hard to hear and you’ll get triggered. But I am here to help you start getting your needs met. Don’t shoot the messanger. I am direct and I make no apologies for my assertiveness. I’m a coach not a therapist. #Love #relationships #intimacy #marriage #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

The very predictable DA dating pattern. #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

The answer so many are looking for. Seek God’s character. Do not rely on your own interpretation of scripture. That was my downfall. I had to seek extremely knowledgeable biblical scholars who have spent their lives, studying scripture, especially the old testament. I had absolutely no idea what some of that scripture meant I always had a view of vengeful, punishing God. Boy was I so wrong! Those were lies from the enemy! #Love #Relationships #AttachmentStyle #Christian #God #Spirituality #Faith #FY #ForYouPage

Common things the DA will say in the dating phase of relationships. #Love #attachmentstyle #relationships #fyp #foryoupage

The biggest need of the fearful avoidant inside of a romantic relationship #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

Anxious people (AP & FA/AP) only want co-regulation and they struggle to self- regulate. Avoidant people (DA & FA/DA) only want each partner to self-regulate and don’t want to participate in co-regulation. A healthy relationship has BOTH equally. In a secure relationship, your partner’s presence is soothing, not triggering. Attachment security is the best gift you can ever give yourself. #Love #attachmentstyle #relationships #marriage #coregulation #fyp #foryoupage

If your DA partner refuses to discuss any problems—here is what to do. #Love #relationships #boundaries #attachmentstyle #boundaries #fyp #foryoupage

The DA’s biggest need inside a relationship #Love #attachmentstyle #relationships #fyp #foryoupage

What does a dismissive avoidant need in order to make changes to be a good partner? 2 things… #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #personaldevelopment #fyp #foryoupage

Why The dismissive avoidant cheats inside of their romantic relationship #Love #affair #cheater #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

If they stop showing interest, what’s your next move? #Love #relationships #dating #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

We absolutely cannot EVER group FAs and DAs together. They, by nature, are completely different beings. Both may pull away under stress, but for drastically different reasons. Knowing the “why” is critical to making changes to make sure you are supporting your partner and/or having proper boundaries. #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #coaching #fyp #foryoupage

Forgiving what you can’t forget. #Love #relationships #forgiveness #attachmentstyle #coach #fyp #foryoupage

The poor FA makes a security blanket out of the red flags 🚩 #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

The FA really wants love and connection, but they deeply mistrust everyone! It is by far the most painful attachment style to have. #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage

Replying to @Enid so common yet so frustrating! The DA never brings up problems because they can’t be vulnerable #Love #Relationships #AttachmentStyle #FYP #ForYouPage

What it really takes to make it work with the DA ❤️ #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage https://dating-decoder.mykajabi.com/offers/Eh87pgmC

God did the impossible. If He can do for me, he will do it for you. #Love #Jesus #Christian #Christiantok #FYP #ForYouPage

Let them. #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #dating #marriage #fyp #foryoupage

Fearful avoidant attachment and their biggest need in relationships. #Love #relationships #attachmentstyle #fyp #foryoupage