Terry | Lifestyle + Mindset

I love how my daughter’s face lights up when I show interest in all of her conversations! #singledadlife #parenting #GRWM #dadlife #comewithme #girldad

I didn't always have much growing up, so as a dad I always want to give. Stay tuned for her reaction 🙌🏾 Zoe's room is coming soon… Did you want any of this in your room as a kid? #singledad #singledadlife #singleparenting #girldad

This was a bitter sweet day. My apartment is where I found my peace and comfort so it was hard to let it go. But my girls needed more space and it was time to change the vibe. You have to know when it’s time to go… But I didn’t do this alone @UmbrellaMoversLV came through! Easiest move I ever did! They packed up every room and item, and delivered it to our new place. They even grabbed some things out of my storage 🙌🏾 #singledad #movingday #lasvegaslife #movers

Words can't express! Needless to say she loved it! Her laugh is like food for the soul. 🫶🏾 #singledad #singledadlife #singleparenting #girldad

When life started Life’ing for me I found this apartment and I began to cut out all the noise and focus on my self. I knew that in order to show up for my daughters and my family that I was going to need to heal. You can’t show up as the best version of your self if you know you have major healing to do. I’m excited about the move, and I’m ready to close this chapter in my life. It was important to me to show you that men have to navigate the same emotional challenges as the ladies. I’ll talk more about this soon in my story, and I’ll let you know when the first one drops on my channel. #immoving #HealingJourney #newseries

This is my favorite part, adding all my personal touches to my home. When I shop for decor I don’t have anything in mind, I just head to some of my favorite places and feel it out 👌🏾 What do you think about the flower vases? Wait until you see them in the kitchen! #comewithme #singledadlife #homedecorideas #athomestores #ikeahack #sundayvibes

This felt good! It’s a new space to fill with good memories… It’s all coming together, I’m grateful. What do you think my kitchen is missing? #singledadlife #kitchendecor #spendthedaywithme #asmr #cleanwithme #unpacking

When I moved into this apartment I was in pieces. So many long days and longer nights searching for my self. I’ve always said, if you want to find your self you simply have to spend time alone. I’m happy to say I’ve never been more “Terry” in my life. It’s time for the next chapter…. What was your favorite part of this place? For me it was the view… #apartmenttherapy #terrylashley #goodbye #HealingJourney #healing #singledad #divorced

Moments like these with my daughters are irreplaceable #singledad #singledadlife #parenting #blackfathersmatter

Conversations with my daughter… Rigid people don’t grow because they are to busy taking everything that happens around them personal. Flexibility allows us to maintain our happiness through challenging times because we know things are going to happen. Life is always Life’ing So you have these types of convos with your kids? #singledadlife #parentingtips #blackfathers

She said “this looks beautiful just like you” I’ll probably never forget that! Do you share moments like this with your kids? #singledadlife #singleparenting #dadlife #morningvlog

42 years around the sun and I’m just learning so many things in life. Proud of who I’ve become through all the lessons. Thank you for riding with me, I couldn’t do this journey alone. First tattoo of my sleeve. What do you think? #comewithme #happybirthdayme #newtattoo #40s #singledad #dailyvlog

This might challenge your views on parenting, but all I ask is that you open your mind to a different perspective. We all do what we know, but as we evolve we must adapt to new ways of thinking. When does using fear to manipulate someone ever produce good long term results? Do you have a problem with being your child’s friend? #singledad #singledadlife #singleparenting #dadlife #girldad

We keep going through the same issues because we never stop and take the time to fix them. #relationships #breakups

Most men will do what they have to do and not say a word about it because we don’t take care of our children for praise, it’s our responsibility and we just love our kids. But I’ve decided to be transparent about my kids on my platform with hopes to change that “deadbeat dad” narrative. How do you feel about the subject? #singledadlife #singleparenting #blackdads #divorced

One thing I’ve learned is you don’t have to wait for the world to understand you in order to understand your self. How could they? You are an original copy! You don’t need the validation of others to be sure of your self. There is so much power in being able to dance to your own beat. Try it! What are your weekend plans? 🕺🏽 #emotionalintelligence #selflove #Selfdevelopment #blackmen #healing #relationships #terrylashley #lifecoachingtips #selfawarenessjourney #lessonslearned #lowselfesteem

With Mothers Day around the corner I wanted to make an appreciation post for all the parents out there. Especially the Mommy’s. My mom raised 6 kids! Much of the time by her self working 2 jobs to keep us housed, fed, and clothed. I can’t believe she was able to do that. I love you Ma! She was my example… I appreciate you ladies for all that you do. Send this to someone that needs to hear this 🤎 #mothersday #parenting #singledadlife #singlemoms #singleparent