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NEVER forget this: It's not about reaching some predetermined destination before finding the right person—it's about finding someone who meets us where we are and embraces growth alongside us. #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #relationshipadvice #growth #journey

When someone tells us they're not ready, or that they don't want us to wait for them, it is NOT an invitation for us to try to prove them wrong. If you want to avoid getting stuck in a situationship that goes nowhere, this is when you must be strong, thank them for their honesty, and move on as you keep searching for the right person. // This was a moment taken from the live coaching sessions I do exclusively for my Love Life Club members. If you want to join us in our upcoming sessions, you can do so at JoinLoveLife.com

“I just don’t feel attracted to nice guys.” Does this resonate with you? Over my career, this is one of the things I’ve heard a lot from the people I coach. If you find yourself having the same thought, then this video may provide some answers as to why that is. // Thank you, @lewishowes, for having me! Don’t forget to listen to the full episode on his YouTube channel.   #MatthewHussey #LewisHowes #Dating #HealingJourney #InnerChild #FindingLove #ToxicRelationships

Always remember, there is a difference between losing "the one" and losing the WRONG one. #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #RelationshipAdvice #Heartbreak

When we're anxious, it's easy to fall into the trap of self-doubt and self-loathing. But THIS perspective shift is all you need to turn your anxiety into powerful confidence. #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #AttachmentStyles #Anxiety #DatingAdvice

Be the person who gives their love freely, but don’t forget to also ask for what YOU need and only stay if they’re willing to give it back. #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #Boundaries #Dating #Relationship

YOU are the asset 💪 #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #Confidence #SelfWorth

When someone wants to be an ongoing person in your life, they’ll show progression towards wanting to create something special with you. #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #RelationshipAdvice #Progression #Dating

Don't let the intense feelings of a short-term romance blind you to your goal of having a long-term relationship. #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #Relationship #Love

If you want to be happy in a relationship, don't look at how you feel about them. Instead, look at how they make YOU feel. 👆 Here is an exclusive clip of my special live training called "Dating With Results." If you're exhausted from fruitless dates, bad experiences, and painful situationships that go nowhere . . . and want to find REAL love this year, this training is the perfect way to start actually getting RESULTS in your love life. Simply go to DatingWithResults.com to start watching now ❤️ #MatthewHussey #DatingWithResults #DatingExpert #Dating101 #Love

When someone is giving you every excuse not to commit, it’s not your job to prove them wrong. Your job is to thank them for their honesty, wish them well, and let them go. Because trying to show them “you’re the real deal” when they’re not even ready for a relationship is the biggest waste of your time.

We are all flawed. So when you choose your "flawed person," you have to make sure to choose the qualities that will create long-term happiness instead of short-term thrills. #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #relationshipadvice #longterm #happiness

When we want to find love, we can find it hard to trust people, because some people aren’t deserving of our trust. However, oftentimes, the reason why we struggle to trust others is because we lack the confidence in ourselves to be okay if someone betrays us or hurts us.

Which of these phrases did you hear when you dated someone with an avoidant attachment style? Tell me in the comments! #MatthewHussey #Avoidant #AttachmentStyles

This is one of the most important things you need to remember xx // Clipped from my conversation with @Lisa Bilyeu on @womenofimpact. Would you like to discover the simple method to reset your approach to dating so it's sustainable, enjoyable, and effective (especially if you haven't put yourself out there in a while)? Join me for my free seminar, "The Love Life Reset," live on Tuesday, March 19. Register in 15 seconds at lovelifetraining.com (link also in bio). #MatthewHussey #LisaBilyeu #LoveLifeBook #Dating #ToxicRelationships #SelfWorth

“Why does someone continue to invest in the relationship even though they want to break up with you?” If you have found yourself asking this question after a painful breakup, then this video taken from one of my Love Life Club sessions is for you . . . 👆

In a relationship, the giving shouldn't be one-sided, and in order for someone to get more from us, they need to be showing up as well.

If you want to meet people in real life, do THESE 3 things 👆🏻 #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #DatingBurnout #DatingApps #DatingTips #Relationship

Lose the shame over being heartbroken! Remember, it's not just a person you're grieving, it's a whole future you thought you were going to have that you're now feeling the absence of. Give yourself love in this moment, drop the judgment, and allow yourself to feel whatever you need to feel. #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #Healing #Grief #Heartbreak

Rejection can affect us profoundly, even when it’s from someone who isn’t right for us. So how do we safeguard ourselves from this? By truly knowing what we want in love: reciprocity! And NOT getting caught up in chasing approval from someone who doesn’t want us back. When you’re truly connected to what matters to you, you can keep moving forward and not get stuck on the wrong people. If you enjoyed this video, you can watch the full “Love Life Reset” replay at LoveLifeReplay.com now.   #MatthewHussey #LoveLifeBook #Love #Life #Relationship #rejection