Marcela Collier

You can break out of disciplining with shame, guilt, and labels. 👇 Many parents come to our classes at a crossroads, yearning to discipline their children with kindness and empathy, but feel stuck in old patterns. We helped them learn that our children thrive best when they’re treated with unconditional positive regard and equipped with the skills to make good choices. So now instead of focusing on punishment, they can focus on connection and guidance. Need more support? 👉link in bio to sign up for the live Q&A with me on April 9th at 8 PM EST. By attending, you’ll: 💡 Gain new insights and strategies to overcome your reactivity. 💡Receive personalized support and guidance. 💡Leave aside the guesswork and get tailored solutions. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting

Growing up was like walking on eggshells with inconsistent parents. 🥚 I broke my cycle when I learned Parenting With Understanding™️ of my children’s needs. 🤩Now I am able to communicate assertively and gain their cooperation faster because I understand their needs. You can have this transformation too. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting

🤯Children learn to be considerate of others when… They receive it from us. 👉Children learn to speak instead of yelling when they see it from us 👉Children learn to process their anger in a healthy way, when they see it in us. We are our children’s biggest role models. For that reason it’s important to equip ourselves with the tools to communicate better, to be calmer, to feel confident in our parenting. Us, HIC Parenting has helped thousands of parents go from frustration to peace with our Parenting With Understanding™️ methodology. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #consciousparenting #marcelacollier #hicparenting

When I learned parenting With Understanding™️ of my child’s needs, I discovered 👇 👉Children are not rude, violent, bad, dramatic, disrespectful… They have pressing needs and they communicate their needs through their behaviors. I became obsessed on the topic, and I became a parenting coach. In 2020 I founded HIC Parenting Education Agency to help parents all over the world bring peace to their parenting and raise emotionally healthy children. 10k parents have transformed their families from chaos and lack of communication to peace and understanding using Parenting With Understanding™️ ✅So many parent’s reporting: 👉End of morning chaos and better listening 👉Feeling calmer and connected 👉Their spouses finally get on board with a more respectful parenting style. If you are transitioning from conventional parenting, and need more than just social media to learn how to teach your children positive behavior… I designed a workshop where I explain the U.S.E process from the Parenting With Understanding™️ methodology to correct any behavior with ease. 👉Grab the replay + workbook for just $7 US. On my website 🔗👉 After the workshop, you will walk away knowing exactly… ✅How to respond to your child’s needs accurately EVERY SINGLE TIME. ✅How to spot a power struggle coming and calm things down before they get wild. ✅How to correct any behavior for the long term, ensuring you see less of it every single time. ✅ How to become a Secure parent who is able to assertively respond instead of reacting. And much more. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingtips #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting#onthisday

#stitch with @Camille Abare Here are three tips to help navigate these moments: 1️⃣ Focus on connection: Instead of using time-outs that disconnect, find ways to stay connected even during discipline. Engage them in understanding their actions and guiding them gently towards better choices. 2️⃣ Teach through interaction: Rather than isolating them, involve them in learning moments. If they’ve acted out, like hitting a sibling, take the opportunity to teach them appropriate behavior through interactive guidance and positive reinforcement. Parenting isn’t always easy, but by understanding our children’s needs and providing loving guidance, we can help them grow into compassionate and well-adjusted individuals. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting

Autism helps me understand my children’s dysregulated moments a lot more. It’s a challenging yet rewarding journey Disclaimer: this was an acting video. I don’t record my child’s vulnerable moments #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #neurodivergentmom #adhdmom #autisticmom #autismmom #consciousparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting

One day when my neurodivergent foster son was having an aggressive meltdown, I made him a promise 👇 🙏”Son, I know you are not a violent person, you have big feelings and even though I don’t know how to help you, I promise you I’ll seek the support to become the secure parent you need.” That day I knew something needed to change. I spent 10 years researching and working on understanding his needs, how to manage my emotions and his emotions, and how to give him better tools. With the direct support of parenting coaches and a supportive community of parents, I did 🥰 I became a secure parent, and in return my son became a secure, emotionally healthy child. Imagine you becoming a secure parent this year. It’s possible 👇 The Secure Parent Collective membership is the support system you need to become a secure parent (community + parenting coaches by your side). ✅Imagine being able to ask me and my coaches your specific question and you getting specific guidance tailored to your needs. ✅Imagine not feeling alone anymore because you have a community of parents who are working alongside you to become secure parents. ✅Imagine having access to a collection of practical tools so you can find specific solutions when you need it the most. You get all these when you are a member of The Secure Parent Collective. 🧡Join as founding member for just $47 monthly. Cart closes on April 26th for months. Find it on my website 👉 in profile Next time we open registration the price will be $57 monthly, so hurry don’t let this opportunity pass you by #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #positiveparenting #marcelacollier #hicparenting

I’m starting to see my inner world with compassion and not judgement. Thanks to my coach @rebecca.lyddon. 🥰🥰 Parenting coaching is so powerful. Yes, I’m a parenting coach and yes, I am under parenting coaching because I cannot never have too much support and knowledge in my motherhood journey. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #neurodivergentmom #adhdmom #autismom #consciousparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting

#stitch with @Silina Marie ❤️ If you want to decode your child’s needs through their behaviors.👇 There’s a solution! These are your child’s 5 basic needs: 👉The need for survival 👉The need for power 👉The need for freedom 👉The need for belonging 👉The need for fun Over 600 parents are already correcting their children’s behaviors with ease from the understanding of their children’s 5 basic needs. Once you know Parenting With Understanding™️ of needs: 🧡You’ll see your children calming down faster with you 🧡Those stubborn behaviors will be less intense and frequent 👉 join us and discover the long-term strategies to tackle behavior issues from your child’s root needs. Save your seat on my website 🔗👉 After the workshop, you will walk away knowing exactly… ✅How to respond to your child’s needs accurately EVERY SINGLE TIME. ✅How to spot a power struggle coming and calm things down before they get wild. ✅How to correct any behavior for the long term, ensuring you see less of it every single time. ✅ How to become a Secure parent who is able to assertively respond instead of reacting. Just $7 🧡🧡 Don’t miss out on this opportunity for a happier, more harmonious family life. 💖 #ge#gentleparentinge#respectfulparentingo#consciousparentinga#parentingtipsa#parentingwithunderstandinga#marcelacolliericparenting

My son’s teacher is certified in positive discipline like me 🧡. Difference between positive discipline and traditional 👇 Traditional: based on punishment for wrong doing, which it creates a short term effect. The child stops for fear but the behavior comes back Positive discipline: corrects behaviors through emotional and social skill development. It produces long term effects because the child learns how to navigate their emotions better. I compiled 10 years of experience as a positive discipline expert and coach in my ebook Bundle “Discipline Without Harm” 🧡this ebook 📙contains the positive discipline toolbox you need to correct behaviors the long term. 🧡🧡Find my ebook Bundle in the 🔗on my website 👉 ✔️You’ll learn about consequences that teach and not punish ✔️How to communicate effective limits broken down by age ✔️How to stop power struggles before they even start by setting expectations in a way your children are encouraged to follow. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #consciousparenting #marcelacollier #hicparenting

3 tips for setting physical boundaries: 🚧 Baby Gates: Secure spaces with baby gates strategically placed around the house. 🌍 Redirect & Explore: When they’re on the move, scoop them up gently and redirect their curiosity to a safe zone. Let them explore within boundaries! ⚓️Parental Presence: Sometimes, your physical presence serves as the best boundary. P.S. Imagine you can get direct parenting solutions from me? Our live ZoomQ&A is back! Gain personalized coaching from me, Marcela, Head Coach of HIC Parenting Agency to get to the root of your struggle and conquer peaceful parenting. 👉👉👉🆓 Zoom Q&A with me on March 19th 12 PM EST. Save your spot in my bio By attending, you’ll: 💡 Gain new insights and strategies to overcome your reactivity. 💡Receive personalized support and guidance. 💡Leave aside the guesswork, and get tailored solutions. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting#onthisday