Breaking up has morphed into a bizarre dance these days. It’s like we’ve lost the nerve to be upfront about our feelings, so instead, we play this odd game. One partner starts to push the limits, being inconsiderate or just plain difficult, skirting around the actual issue. It’s a strategy, albeit a cowardly one — instead of dropping the break-up bomb, they become the bomb. They let their toxic behavior fester until the other has no choice but to call it quits, to say “enough is enough.” It’s as if by forcing their hand, they don’t have to own up to the decision to end things. But this kind of exit isn’t clever or kind… it’s just a silent scream for a finale that leaves both parties more scarred than a clear-cut goodbye ever would. It’s not breaking up, it’s breaking down.
Three ways in which a man shuts down a woman’s feminine energy in a relationship. #relationships #feminineenergy #healthyrelationships #relationshipadvice #relationshipproblems Quote: Matt Cama
Opening up about your emotions and letting her know where you’re at is a sign of healthy masculinity… burdening her with your problems and expecting her to fix them isn’t.