Here’s the summary besties: 🍑No such thing as too much lùbe 🍑COMMUNICATE - intimacy of any kind is about teamwork. You both have a role to play 🍑Take it slow and ease into it. Foreplay is crucial for backdoor play to ensure the b0tt0m is comfortable and pain free 🍑Peach muscle training does NOT make you “loose”. This is a b0tt0m shaming myth. Training the sphincter makes the b0tt0m able to control their peach better to make them more comfortable and make them better at adapting to their t0p. 🍑push out as the t0p enters. This may feel like a similar sensation to a bowel movement, but it’s because of this that it makes it easier to get in! 🍑backdoor play SHOULDN’T hurt. If you follow the above steps it should be nothing but pleasurable. Go have fun!
TOPS LISTEN UP: 🍑Have an anatomy lesson and learn where everything is 🍑Mix up the pace, the same over and over is boring 🍑harder is about power of a thrust, faster is about the speed of the thrust 🍑PLEASE go slow at first unless told otherwise. Our bodies need to adapt, otherwise it can hurt and cause damage 🍑Communicate with your partner. It’s important everyone is comfortable, happy and having a good time 🍑Use lǔbě please. It can be very uncomfortable without it 🍑Don’t pressure your partner to let you not use protection. The risk is much greater for the bottom, so listen to them
Article on stopping HIV is in my bio💜 This National #HIVTestingWeek, we want to remind everyone to get tested. HIV doesn’t discriminate and now over 40% of all new cases are heterosexual. Get yourself tested💜
Size anxiety is very common, around 30% of p3n1s owners feel dissatisfied with their own size. But remember, what we see online ISN’T representative of real life, and size really isn’t everything. Learning how to use it is the most important thing of all🥰