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(Draft) I don’t want anyone to think I’m perfect & never make mistakes. We’re all just human, trying our best! The most important thing for me when this happens is that i take the time to communicate properly and apologize when i make mistakes. In return, this shows my kids that adults make mistakes too and sets the example for them to apologize unpromted when they make mistakes too! ♥️ #fyp #foryou #parent #parents #parenting #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #momlife #MomsofTikTok #mom #positiveparenting #breakinggenerationalcurses #cyclebreaker
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Not the seasoneasoneasonings 😭🤣 #fyp #foryou #parent #parenting #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #MomsofTikTok #momlife #momsoftiktok #correlatedconsequences #naturalconsequences #singlemom #creatorsearchinsights
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This was a year ago 😂 I had a LOT going on at that time and I was like “nah… not today” 😭 we all have our moments, days even weeks sometimes but all that matters is that you are trying your best! ♥️ #fyp #foryou #gentleparenting #parenting #respectfulparenting #parents #parent #momlife #positivediscipline #MomsofTikTok
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And yes, they also socialize. #fyp #foryou #homeschool #homeschoolmom #homeschooled #montessori #montessorimom #parenting #parents #parent #momlife #MomsofTikTok #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting
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How i introduced the new gas stove to my 4 year old and 6 year old! Kitchen safety is very important to me, my kids have been learning since they were barely 2 years old! Here are some of the things i explain to them in order to create a good understanding of stove safety! #fyp #foryou #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #montessori #montessorimom #montessoriathome #teaching #teachingsafety #momlife #parent #parents #parenting #authoritativeparenting #creatorsearchinsights
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The Considerate Momma
Cooperation THROUGH connection #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #parentcoach #parenting #parentsoftiktok
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Just as a reminder, having a cute elaborate kitchen like this is fun but it is NOT necessary for montessori learning. Allowing them to use the regular kitchen with whatever you have on hand works just as well! ♥️ We started with just a step stool and a few toddler sized utensils! #fyp #foryou #montessori #montessorimom #montessoritoddler #montessoriathome #minikitchen #functionalkitchen #montessorikitchen #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #parents #parent #parenting #momlife #howtostartmontessori #authoritativeparenting #parentsoftiktok
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As someone who was forced to clean ALL the time & had cleaning punishments as a child, I guarantee it doesn’t build a good relationship with cleaning. I still struggle with it as an adult. My kids know cleaning is important, they know they have to do their part, but they also know they are human and they are allowed to rest. As a result, they see cleaning as something they just do naturally when they feel they need to, they know they’re safe to say “i don’t feel like it right now” or “i will in a little bit” A healthy, maintainable relationship with household chores is my goal, not perfection ♥️ #fyp #foryou #parenting #parents #mom #momlife #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #montessori #montessorimom #montessoriathome #positiveparenting #parent
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(Draft) This is a clear example of why it’s so important to me that i teach my kids proper communication skills & emotional regulation. He could’ve easily held on to this, and moments like this building up can create resentment. He knew he was safe to bring up how he was feeling and it makes me so proud that he was able to communicate this to me because it had clearly been bothering him, even the next day 🥺♥️ #fyp #foryou #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #montessori #montessorimom #parents #parent #parenting #MomsofTikTok #momlife #emotionalregulation #communicationskills
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If you saw this already, no you didn’t 😂 A lot of people have been asking how to help a child through calming down when they’re frustrated, i think this is a good example ♥️ #fyp #foryou #gentleparenting #authoritativeparenting #respectfulparenting #parent #parents #parenting #momlife #MomsofTikTok #emotionalregulation #communicationskills #parentsoftiktok
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Despite what many of us have been taught, consequences don’t have to be harsh and unpleasant in order for kids to learn. My kids sometimes enjoy cleaning but they dont go around making messes in order to clean. They understand that making a mess means cleaning a mess and they dont have to hate cleaning. Just like when i make a mess as an adult, I simply clean it. ♥️ #fyp #foryou #gentleparenting #parenting #respectfulparenting #parents #parent #momlife #naturalconsequences #correlatedconsequences #montessorimom #montessori
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Their little water ballon fight at the end though… 😂☠️ #fyp #foryou #parent #parenting #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #momlife #parentsoftiktok #montessori #montessorimom #singlemom #creatorsearchinsights
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I’m not crying… you are 😭 If you ask me, THIS is what childhood is all about! I seriously love how much they love playing in the rain. ❤️ #fyp #foryou #parent #parenting #MomsofTikTok #momlife #parentsoftiktok #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #letthembekids #rain #dancingintherain #creatorsearchinsights
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Replying to @Issie <3 I feel like a lot of parents take it personally when kids don’t listen & see it as a sign of disrespect. With everything that I’ve learned about a childs brain and how they learn, ive come to realize that its not them being disrespectful at all. I will always apologize to my child when i feel like i am being too stern. There are many ways i could have handled this & i didn’t like how i handled it so i felt it warranted an apology. Its 100% okay if you don’t agree, thats the beauty of parenting. There is no one way to parent ♥️ #fyp #foryou #parent #parents #parenting #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #momlife #MomsofTikTok #mom #positiveparenting #cyclebreaker #montessori #montessorimom #teachinglifeskills
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I also wanted to say that if you are in a tough season in your life and everyone keeps saying “enjoy it. You’ll miss this” It’s okay if you won’t miss the chaos. It’s okay if you are struggling in the stage you are at. It’s okay if you won’t miss some things about parenthood. Your feelings are valid. This is just how I felt in this moment and I wanted to share. Sending love to all the parents that are struggling, you’re doing amazing! 🥺♥️ #fyp #foryou #parenting #parents #memories #childhood #momlife #livinginthemoment #parent #mom #montessori #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #montessorimom #montessoriathome #timeisathief
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He hasn’t wanted to make coffee in SOOO long but i got a new espresso machine so he was all about it 😂♥️ #fyp #foryou #momlife #mom #parent #parents #parenting #montessori #montessorimom #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #makingcoffee #coffee #espresso #espressoathome #javawithjonah #latte #creatorsearchinsights
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It’s not always easy letting kids help out with tasks because it can take so much longer than it needs to but when I’m able, i try to let them help as much as i can! It really is beneficial for them in so many ways! #fyp #foryou #montessori #montessorimom #parenting #parents #gentleparenting #momlife #MomsofTikTok #lifeskills #teachinglifeskills #montessoriathome #respectfulparenting
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It’s been a while since he’s cooked french toast, so he mostly just needed a little encouragement and guidance! If your child is just starting out, this process might look a little different & they will probably need more assistance! ♥️ #fyp #foryou #cooking #montessori #montessorikids #montessorimom #breakfast #Recipe #recipes #recipesoftiktok #frenchtoast #parenting #parents #parent #momlife #MomsofTikTok #fosteringindependence #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting
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The Considerate Momma
⚠️ LAST CALL TO SAVE YOU SEAT⚠️ Head to my page to save yours or read on if you want more details… I was once an easily angered, overly reactive momma who exploded often… Then I moved into a pattern of trying to “FIX” myself by isolating in a closet to “calm down” but all I was really doing was SUPPRESSING emotions that would eventually come out in another explosion… Then I ✨FINALLY✨ learned what it takes to EMBRACE my anger, actually REGULATE my nervous system without exploding or avoiding, AND EXPRESS it to my family in healthy ways… And now, I’ve taken my signature roadmap — the exact steps I took to get here — and put them all in a $7 Masterclass that I’m hosting LIVE, TONIGHT @ 7:30pm CST. If you can’t attend live, you can still register & catch the recording! After you attend this class, you’ll know: - The Real Root of Your Anger: We will dive deep into the underlying causes of your anger, uncovering the triggers and patterns that lead to the reactions you’re not proud of - What it takes to Master Nervous System Regulation: I’ll provide proven techniques to regulate your nervous system and reclaim control during easily-angered moments. - What it takes to Embrace & Express Anger Healthily: You’ll walk away with my exact process of mobilizing anger out of the body in healthy and connective ways instead of yelling, threatening, bribing or punishing. ➡️ Head over to my page & click the linktree under “Masterclass Tonight” #cyclebreaker #respectfulparenting #innerchildhealing #healyourinnerchild #nervoussystemregulation #parentsoftiktok #parenting #consciousparenting #disciplinewithoutdamage #disciplinewithoutdisconnection
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Marcela Collier
“It’s been a month since the last time I yelled at my daughter…” This was a message I got from a mom who started applying the 3 skills to master calm in her children’s chaos: 1. She learned the skill of understanding the root of her yelling which is the preconditioned responses she got from the way she grew up. 2. She learned the skill of calming herself down before reacting. 3. She learned the skill of repair, which is restoring the relationship with her children after growing up with yelling. 👉She learned these 3 skills in The Break The Yelling Cycle Online Course, that btw, it’s going to be 50% off all week from July 9th to July 13th. Like her, 498 parents broke their yelling cycle once they learned these 3 skills in our best seller course, ‘Break The Yelling Cycle.’ #a#autismmoma#adhdmom#c#consciousparentingC#CalmParenting#r#respectfulparenting#p#peacefulparenting#p#parentingclasses#p#parentingwithunderstanding#m#marcelacollier#hicparenting#greenscreen
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The Considerate Momma
#stitch with @Madi • SAHM Which shows more strength? 💁🏼‍♀️ #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting
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Annaliese Erin Parent Coach
#parentinghack #consciousparenting #respectfulparenting
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The Considerate Momma
Cooperation > COMPLIANCE! Here’s how to boost cooperation ⬇️ 1. Lead by example. If you want your children to talk at a normal volume, be respectful and not have an attitude when they’re angry, frustrated, annoyed etc., talk at a normal volume, be respectful and don’t have an attitude when **YOU** are angry, frustrated and annoyed. It’s pretty hypocritical to punish a child for behaviors you permit in yourself. 💁🏼‍♀️ 2. Put yourself in your child’s shoes. Every unwanted behavior is communicating an underlying NEED (not just a desire). Put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself “What might I need if this were my circumstance?” 3. Correct through CONNECTION. Past generations told us that connecting when a child was misbehaving was “coddling” or “rewarding” bad behavior. Ironically, these people clearly knew nothing about child development. We now have 70+ years of research proving that, when a child is dysregulated (the’re acting out or have an attitude), the parts of their brain that retain logical/rational lessons COMPLETELY SHUT OFF if we punish them. In fact, they become MORE dysregulated and go into shut down, suppression & dissociation. If this happens consistently, they become stuck in a state of chronic dysregulation. On the contrary, if we connect before we correct, we ACTIVATE the learning centers in their brain so they actually learn the lessons we want them to and begin to SELF-correct over time. ➡️➡️ If you want a simple, yet highly effective roadmap to boost cooperation and to discipline without causing damage or creating disconnection, join my 10-day Virtual Book Study that starts this coming Sunday, July 7th. We’ll be reading one chapter of my “Considerate Conversation Formula” ebook each day with daily discussions in a private community & a live Q&A on July 16th! ➡️ Head to the ♾️ at the top of my profile to get your copy & j0in in! See you there!!! 💃💃💃 #consciousparenting #respectfulparenting #parentsoftiktok #gentleparenting #connectedparenting #parenting
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Marcela Collier
Is your child a sensory seeker? Let me know Those are part of your child’s sensory needs, and all of us humans have sensory needs at different levels. The answer is not to stop the aggression but to equip our children with better ways to meet their sensory needs. ✅So they can find better ways to release their energy but in a healthy way P.S. The replay of our Sensory Needs Event is up 🥰. You can purchase it now. Link in my bl⭕️ You’ll learn…. ✅ How to recognize and understand your child’s sensory needs to create a smoother daily routine. ✅ How to transform sensory-seeking behaviors like hitting, throwing, and biting to healthy release of energy. ✅ How to support sensory-avoiding behaviors, making hygiene, mealtime and dressing less of a struggle. ✅ How to become a Secure parent who responds confidently to your child’s unique sensory needs. $350 value coaching session for just $17 by grabbing the replay 🥰🥰. #pickytoddler #aggressivetoddler #autismmom #autisticmom #spdmom #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #hicparenting #marcelacollier
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The Considerate Momma
You’re not a bad parent. You’re a loving parent caught in a viscious cycle. You only yell or use dominance & control because you don’t know how to get your children to listen or obey otherwise. You’re trying to manage your anger better, but you keep hitting a wall in difficult parenting moments…and you snap. I understand you because I was once an easily angered and quickly-reactive parent too and there were 3 key things that transformed my relationship with anger: 1. Unveiling the Roots of Anger: I had to dive deep into the underlying causes of my anger, uncovering the triggers and patterns that lead to my explosive reactions.
2. Mastering Nervous System Regulation: I gained invaluable techniques to regulate my nervous system and reclaim control during easily-angered moments. 3. Embracing Anger & Learning to Express it Healthily: I found key strategies to mobilize my anger out of my body in healthy and connective ways instead of yelling, transferring blame or creating fear for the sake of control. 💚And now I’ve put it all in a NEW Live M A S T 3 E C L A S S called “Rage Reset PART TWO: Embracing & Expressing Anger Safely” (for just💲7️⃣)!!!! 🎉🎉🎉 Head over to my page to save your sp0+!!! #parenting #MomsofTikTok #dadsoftiktok #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentinghelp #parentingtips #gentleparenting
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Being a 🫏 to your kid isnt a flex… #motherhood #sahm #momlife #whatifedmykids #whatmykidseat #whatmykidseatinaday #kidmeals #realistic #relatable #respectfulparenting
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The Considerate Momma
Replying to @srwmz ✅ This is FOR YOU if: - You want to know when and how to use replacement behaviors or natural/correlated consequences - You want to build emotional intelligence in your children, no matter their age - You want a proven formula to move your children into cooperate quickly without having to yell, threaten, bribe or punish - You want to create emotional security in your home so your children feel safe coming to you in EVERY stage - You want to experience LESS chaos & MORE connection with your children Join me and a village of cycle breaking parents for a 10-day Virtual Book Study on my “Considerate Conversation Formula” ebook/audiobook (starts July 7th) and get ✨INSTANT ACCESS✨ to two pre-recorded Video Classes: 💻 How to Power WITH Your Child Through Difficult Moments: Break OUT of the cycle of permissive or dominant parenting, and learn practical ways to collaborate with your child and effectively guide them to cooperation without sacrificing connection. 💻 Identifying the Early Warning Signs of Dysregulation in Children: Discover the 3 stages of dysregulation in your child BEFORE a meltdown so you can easily calm your child and activate the parts of their brain that allow them to listen & learn lessons, creating more peace in your home! ➡️ Head to the ♾️ at the top of my page to gran your copy & jo!n the study! I can’t wait to see how The Considerate Conversation Formula helps your family! ❤️Rachael #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentsoftiktok #gentleparenting #connectedparenting #parenting
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Your kids shouldn’t have to fear you to respect you 👏🏼 it is something you have to model & teach from the beginning #motherhood #fyp #momlife #motherhoodunfiltered #sahm #parenting #secondtimemom #momchats #parentingtips #respectfulparenting
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The Considerate Momma
Replying to @ktaylor348 ahhhh the old “autonomy leap” #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #parentcoach #parenting #parentsoftiktok
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The Considerate Momma
#duet with @Jared James #parents #respectfulparenting #parentsoftiktok #MomsofTikTok #dadsoftiktok
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The Considerate Momma
Rage Reset Workshop (Part TWO) on May 20th! 🔗 on my page! #nervoussystemregulation #innerchildhealing #cyclebreaker #breakthecycle #parenting #parentsoftiktok #respectfulparenting #MomsofTikTok #dadsoftiktok
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Big Little Feelings
Frustration tolerance is a *huge* part of emotional resiliency. Life is hard, there are setbacks and traffic jams and people who will cross boundaries or say harsh things. We can’t protect our kids from these hard moments. What we *can* do, is teach our kids how to handle hard moments. How to handle feelings like disappointment, anger, frustration. It’s ok to be frustrated! It’s ok to be angry at the person taking too long at the green light. AND, we get to actively teach our child how to be angry, how to be frustrated, and how to be *resilient* at the same time. How this feeling of frustration will come and go. How we can’t control the person in front of us taking too long at the green light, but we *can* control how a) we react and b) how much this minor inconvenience will throw off our day (week, month, year?). If you want to raise a resilient kid, work on your own resiliency. (And for the record, we’re both 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️actively working on this every single day as moms ourselves. We are beyond guilty of throwing adult mini tantrums when we can’t find our car keys, when we spill our coffee, etc - it’s about noticing, and working on it, each day. Progress, not perfection 😎 ✨Struggling with tantrums, unwanted behaviors, and keeping your cool? Our course Winning the Toddler Stage has helped over 200,000 families calm the chaos in their homes! There’s a reason it’s the #1 toddler/preschooler course in the world—it WORKS. You'll leave this course feeling empowered and confident in every toddler situation thrown your way. For ages 1-6. Head to our link in bio for the course!✨ #emotionalresilience #respectfulparenting #mindfulness #letthembelittle #toddlers #tantrums #discipline #biglittlefeelings #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodunfiltered #momlife #dadlife #frustration #tolerance
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Marcela Collier
Consequences are overrated 👇 They are due seldom times in my house. My twins correct own behavior most of the time because I focus on skill development over inflicting pain through punishments that don’t work the long term I’ve helped directly 477 parents correct behaviors the long term, and I would love to help you as well 👇 Join Our LIVE Workshop: The U.S.E Framework - Transforming Child Behavior with Ease on July 23rd at 9 am PST | 10 am MST | 11 am CST | 12 pm EST 👉Save your seat inbio👉👉 After the workshop, you will walk away knowing exactly… ✅How to respond to your child’s needs accurately EVERY SINGLE TIME. ✅How to spot a power struggle coming and calm things down before they get wild. ✅How to correct any behavior for the long term, ensuring you see less of it every single time. ✅ How to become a Secure parent who is able to assertively respond instead of reacting. And much more. #autismmom #adhdmom #consciousparenting #CalmParenting #respectfulparenting #peacefulparenting #parentingclasses #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting #twinmom #twinparents
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Marcela Collier
“Gentle parenting is for gentle children.” If this were true, then neurodivergent children can’t be parented respectfully because they are usually more sensitive to everything. So they tend to whine and be aggressive sometimes. (Not all). I’ve been gentle parenting my children from birth using my Parenting With Understanding™️ method of needs and can’t imagine something different. On July 23th, we have our next Zoom Workshop, and I’ll be teaching you Parenting With Understanding so you can manage any behavior with ease 🤩🤩. Registration opens July 16th #autismmom #adhdmom #consciousparenting #CalmParenting #respectfulparenting #peacefulparenting #parentingclasses #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting #twinmom #twinparents
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lol we are kinda struggling today as you can probably tell🤪 my instinct is to just reassure him and tell him we can do hard things but the arguing and him swearing he won’t do it kinda gets to me #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting
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The Considerate Momma
Discipline ✨IS✨ possible without causing damage or creating disconnection! ➡️ Virtual Book Study happening July 7th - 16th! Details below 👇🏼 ✅ This is FOR YOU if: - You want to build emotional intelligence in your children, no matter their age - You want a proven formula to move your children into cooperate quickly without having to yell, threaten, bribe or punish - You want to create emotional security in your home so your children feel safe coming to you in EVERY stage - You want to experience LESS chaos & MORE connection with your children Join me and a village of cycle breaking parents for a 10-day Virtual Book Study on my “Considerate Conversation Formula” ebook/audiobook (starts July 7th) and get ✨INSTANT ACCESS✨ to two pre-recorded Video Classes: 💻 How to Power WITH Your Child Through Difficult Moments: Break OUT of the cycle of permissive or dominant parenting, and learn practical ways to collaborate with your child and effectively guide them to cooperation without sacrificing connection. 💻 Identifying the Early Warning Signs of Dysregulation in Children: Discover the 3 stages of dysregulation in your child BEFORE a meltdown so you can easily calm your child and activate the parts of their brain that allow them to listen & learn lessons, creating more peace in your home! ➡️ Head to the ♾️ at the top of my page, then to Virtual Book Study I can’t wait to see how The Considerate Conversation Formula helps your family! Biggest virtual hugs, ❤️ Rachael #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #gentleparenting #connectedparenting #parenting #parentsoftiktok #parentcoach
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This is just one of the skills I teach on my page. Follow along if you want to learn how to guide children in a healthy and effective way. We have a choice. We can teach children how to navigate relationships in a healthy way or we can teach children how to navigate relationships in a harmful way. They will learn by what they see us do. Practicing what you preach is one of the most powerful ways to teach. Shoutout to this #gentleparenting revelation from @kevonstage . #relationships #parenting #consciousdiscipline #respectfulparenting #growth #consciousparenting #emotions #socialemotionallearning
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Allowing children to use glass gives them a better understanding of fragile things and helps them understand hiw to use things purposefully and responsibly ❤️ #fyp #foryou #parenting #montessori #montessorimom #montessoriathome #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #parents #parentsoftiktok #momlife #MomsofTikTok #singlemom #parentingtips #creatorsearchinsights
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Marcela Collier
You can break out of disciplining with shame, guilt, and labels. 👇 Many parents come to our classes at a crossroads, yearning to discipline their children with kindness and empathy, but feel stuck in old patterns. We helped them learn that our children thrive best when they’re treated with unconditional positive regard and equipped with the skills to make good choices. So now instead of focusing on punishment, they can focus on connection and guidance. Need more support? 👉link in bio to sign up for the live Q&A with me on April 9th at 8 PM EST. By attending, you’ll: 💡 Gain new insights and strategies to overcome your reactivity. 💡Receive personalized support and guidance. 💡Leave aside the guesswork and get tailored solutions. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting
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The Considerate Momma
Replying to @Rosemary. If a child doesn’t get ⭐️THIS⭐️, they cannot learn the lessons we want them to! #parentsoftiktok #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #parenting #connectedparenting
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The Considerate Momma
Replying to @20reedas These moments may be far more rare now…but they certainly still happen for me too. With many emotions and behaviors, I can now go the long haul and stay connected & compassionate to the end…but there are still some deeply wounded areas in my inner child where she feels the need to FIGHT FOR HER LIFE! 😩 If you’re working on STRETCHINGGGG your “window of tolerance” too and you want to know what got me from the 10 second to 15+ minute window, I’ve put my exact roadmap into a 💲7️⃣ m@st3rc|ass called “Rage Reset” (there’s a L|NK in my B|0). Bottom line: I GET YOU! I’m still healing, learning, and growing too. ❤️❤️❤️ #parenting #parentsoftiktok #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #peacefulparenting #connectedparenting #consciousparenting
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The Considerate Momma
Thank you @drgabormate for your infinite wisdom! #cyclebreaker #breakthecycle #parenting #innerchildhealing #innerchild #parentsoftiktok #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting
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The Considerate Momma
If you hate how you feel after you discipline, THAT CAN CHANGE! ⬇️⬇️⬇️ Humans are wired for connection. Yelling, threatening, bribing or punishing others is NOT how we naturally long to connect, but we’ve been so brainwashed by traditional parenting beliefs that these becomes our knee-jerk reactions when we want our children to listen or obey. Afterward, we’re faced with the gaping wound of relational disconnection and, if not tended to, that wound can become permanent. Breaking this cycle starts INSIDE YOU! On May 20th, I’m hosting a NEW Masterclass called Rage Reset Part TWO: Embracing & Expressing Anger Safely! In this class you’ll discover: - The Real Root of Your Anger: We will dive deep into the underlying causes of your anger, uncovering the triggers and patterns that lead to the reactions you’re not proud of - How to Master Nervous System Regulation: I’ll provide proven techniques to regulate your nervous system and reclaim control during easily-angered moments. - How to Embrace & Express Anger Healthily: You’ll walk away with my signature strategies to mobilize anger out of the body in healthy and connective ways instead of yelling, threatening, bribing or punishing. ➡️ Head over to my page for the 🔗 to save your seat (only a few hundred spots left) #parenting #innerchildhealing #healyourinnerchild #parentsoftiktok #respectfulparenting #nervoussystemregulation
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The Considerate Momma
Strict parenting vs. Critical Thinkers #strictparents #parenting #parentcoach #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingtips #parentinghelp
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Many of us are triggered by a mess. If you are one of thise people, it mught be helpful to teflect on how the adults in your life reacted to you when you made a mess. Did they offer loving guidance or did they offer reactive yelling? 🤗 Instead of fearing or avoiding messes, let's embrace them as valuable teaching moments. Encourage children to explore, create, and learn from their experiences. 💡 When responding to messes, let's focus on connection and guidance. Offer support, empathy, and understanding. Together, we can help children develop problem-solving skills and a growth mindset that will help them throughout their lives. 🙌 Remember, mistakes and messes are not failures, but stepping stones towards development and self-discovery. Let's create a nurturing environment where children feel safe to learn, grow, and thrive. #preschoolmom #preschoolteacher #toddlerdad #toddlermom #toddlerparents #toddlermess #consciousparenting #respectfulparenting
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Marcela Collier
When I learned parenting With Understanding™️ of my child’s needs, I discovered 👇 👉Children are not rude, violent, bad, dramatic, disrespectful… They have pressing needs and they communicate their needs through their behaviors. I became obsessed on the topic, and I became a parenting coach. In 2020 I founded HIC Parenting Education Agency to help parents all over the world bring peace to their parenting and raise emotionally healthy children. 10k parents have transformed their families from chaos and lack of communication to peace and understanding using Parenting With Understanding™️ ✅So many parent’s reporting: 👉End of morning chaos and better listening 👉Feeling calmer and connected 👉Their spouses finally get on board with a more respectful parenting style. If you are transitioning from conventional parenting, and need more than just social media to learn how to teach your children positive behavior… I designed a workshop where I explain the U.S.E process from the Parenting With Understanding™️ methodology to correct any behavior with ease. 👉Grab the replay + workbook for just $7 US. On my website 🔗👉 After the workshop, you will walk away knowing exactly… ✅How to respond to your child’s needs accurately EVERY SINGLE TIME. ✅How to spot a power struggle coming and calm things down before they get wild. ✅How to correct any behavior for the long term, ensuring you see less of it every single time. ✅ How to become a Secure parent who is able to assertively respond instead of reacting. And much more. #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #consciousparenting #parentingtips #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting#onthisday
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The Considerate Momma
Giving your children what your Inner Child needed is so healing and transformative. Every time you choose to apologize after losing your cool… Every time you take accountability for your part in a conflict… Every time you choose to take deep breaths, shake out the anger & speak respectfully instead of yelling, threatening or punishing… YOU ARE BREAKING CYCLES! Breaking the cycle IS NOT a one-time achievement accomplished only after giving your children a perfect childhood. Breaking the cycle is a DAY IN AND DAY OUT process — a conscious choice EVERY DAY to SEE your child, VALUE them in their developmental stage & UNDERSTAND their point of view. It is disciplining children without damage and you’re ALREADY doing it! Biggest virtual hugs, ~Rach #parentsoftiktok #innerchildhealing #healyourinnerchild #nervoussystemregulation #parenting #consciousparenting #disciplinewithoutdamage #disciplinewithoutdisconnection #cyclebreaker #respectfulparenting
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The Considerate Momma
There is a difference between PUNISHMENT and DISCIPLINE! Let’s explore… ⬇️⬇️⬇️
 Discipline is the loving guidance we offer our children to help them learn, grow, and understand the consequences of their actions. It's about fostering self-awareness, empathy, and responsibility. Discipline empowers both parent and child to collaboratively navigate challenges, fostering a relationship built on trust and mutual respect. On the other hand, punishment often comes from a place of control or fear, aiming to suppress behavior rather than address its underlying causes. It can create feelings of shame, resentment, and disconnection, ultimately hindering the development of genuine understanding and accountability. Just as we teach ABCs and 123s, it's equally crucial to equip our children with the skills to navigate their feelings and behaviors without shame or disconnection. When we provide children the building blocks of EMOTIONAL intelligence we inadvertently: 1. Equip them to feel, process through AND express every emotion healthily (including anger, sadness, disappointment or frustration) 2. Build empathetic children who are genuinely invested in the well-being of those around them 3. Raise resilient children who do not feel the need to shrink or silence their own thoughts, feelings or opinions to please or appease others 4. Teach them that their voice matters and can be used for greatness 5. Model healthy authority so when our children come face-to-face with toxic authority, they know how to stand up for themselves My Kids Calm Down Kit is NOW AVAILABLE in a print-on-demand POSTER (comes to you fully printed and ready to hang!!!!)! This poster provides a safe space for kids ages 3-8 years to explore, understand, and learn to manage their emotions and behaviors. From soothing sensory exercises to empowering activities, each element is carefully curated to foster emotional intelligence and produce healthier behavior. ➡️ Head to the ⭐️ L 1 N K ⭐️ on my page to get yours! #parenting #parentsoftiktok #consciousparenting #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #calmparenting #parentingtips #parentingtips
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Marcela Collier
Autism helps me understand my children’s dysregulated moments a lot more. It’s a challenging yet rewarding journey Disclaimer: this was an acting video. I don’t record my child’s vulnerable moments #gentleparenting #respectfulparenting #neurodivergentmom #adhdmom #autisticmom #autismmom #consciousparenting #parentingwithunderstanding #marcelacollier #hicparenting
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Annaliese Erin Parent Coach
#consciousparenting #teenagers #parenthack #respectfulparenting
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